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December 8th, 2025: First Post is Live!
My family has been discussing our yearly tally of Gains & Losses! Check out this invaluable post to get started on your strategy for 2026 Year of The Horse! See you flip side, ne! XO Tama.chan
Tamara Mays
Dec 8, 20251 min read


Day 5 Letrozole: Happy Friday!
It's December 5th, 2025! Happy Friday y'all! I hope you're getting the format as I ease back into this blogging practice! This is one of those things that gives each day a bit more structure as the practice unfolds. For ppl who are mirroring my practice, I hope you enjoy the way it give each day a bit more flesh on the bones of disciplined practice. I hope stretching your limits gives flexibility as you test your range, & that exploration into it's depths gives your richness
Tamara Mays
Dec 5, 20252 min read


Tama Says: Actionable Goals For Divesting From The System
Show & Tell What's Possible - Ppl choose from the options they know. - Some ppl believe they have no options. Vet for Allocare Events Create Opportunities to Break Bread & Loiter - We need to prove we make more & spend more when our communities are well supported to loiter. Spread a sense of privacy w/in surveillance - Establish "No Record Zones". - Continue Masking in Public. - Create, Wear, Support, & Celebrate Bold, Tacky, Wild Fashion. - Normalize making a point of being
Tamara Mays
Dec 5, 20251 min read


Day 4 Letrozole: Slow Maxing & Releasing the December 2025 Schedule
Happy Full Moon, darlings! Today is Day 4 of Letrozole! Today is a sore day (sacroiliitis) so I'm making a point of slow maxing. I pull Rest Cards from The Rest Ministry Deck every week! At the end of the year, I'm gonna make a point of shuffling the deck for 2026 & publish a card post every week. I found it a super satisfying practice thru 2025, so I will continue. This is the point of taking an introspective period every year to tally the Gains & Losses. I gained a valuable
Tamara Mays
Dec 4, 20252 min read


Day 2 & 3 on Letrozole: Drawing Inspiration
It's December 3rd, 2025. It's Day 3 of Letrozole Treatment to force my body to ovulate. Our plans for the holiday season are now set in stone, travel booked & all! I've been feeling especially grateful & nostalgic as we head towards the Winter Solstice. Our family always tallies Gains & Losses around this time of year. I enjoyed talking about it the last couple years w/ ppl who've seen benefit in this griot practice. I've decided I need to give ppl the chance to better suppor
Tamara Mays
Dec 3, 20252 min read


Join Us On Our Family Expansion Journey! ^.^ Day 1: First Course of Letrozole
December 1st, 2025 Oh the classic Journal Prompt Style & the nostalgia it evokes of years long past. Hello, everyone! Welcome to my blog! If you landed here, it's bc you're interested in my closed, Blk Ntv cultural experience. Well here it is. Ta-dah! It's gonna be camp af, explicit, intimate, & private. Today is Day 1 of My First Course of Letrozole Treatment. The Goal: It's My Turn To Get Pregnant My culture believes strongly in the idea of deliberate, conscious conception
Tamara Mays
Dec 1, 20253 min read
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